Comments on: Spiritual Relaxation: How Well Do You Deal with Criticism? http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/spiritual-relaxation-how-well-do-you-deal-with-criticism/ Simple ceromonies of the mind to Transform Stress into Success Thu, 05 Jan 2012 16:40:40 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.3 hourly 1 By: Spiritual Relaxation Coach http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/spiritual-relaxation-how-well-do-you-deal-with-criticism/#comment-6688 Spiritual Relaxation Coach Mon, 16 Nov 2009 16:45:58 +0000 http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/?p=231#comment-6688 Hi Josie, Words cannot hurt you unless you allow them. Let me explain. As you indicated we tend to internalized criticism when it directed at us. Let me share a little secret with you. The next time you are criticized pay attention to the harsh language that you feel from the criticism. Change the harshness of the tone of the language (soften it to maybe to the gentle sound of waves in the sea as they crashes against the sand) in your mind. Let me know what happened to the criticism. Peace, Cecil Hi Josie,

Words cannot hurt you unless you allow them. Let me explain. As you indicated we tend to internalized criticism when it directed at us.

Let me share a little secret with you. The next time you are criticized pay attention to the harsh language that you feel from the criticism.

Change the harshness of the tone of the language (soften it to maybe to the gentle sound of waves in the sea as they crashes against the sand) in your mind.

Let me know what happened to the criticism.

Peace,

Cecil

]]> By: josie http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/spiritual-relaxation-how-well-do-you-deal-with-criticism/#comment-6677 josie Fri, 13 Nov 2009 23:07:18 +0000 http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/?p=231#comment-6677 they say words cant hurt you but thats a lie;it would be nice to find a way to deal with it without internalizing it and letting it ruin your day and possible yr health...i live n new york and citizem is a way of life, especially when yr Gay... they say words cant hurt you but thats a lie;it would be nice to find a way to deal with it without internalizing it and letting it ruin your day and possible yr health…i live n new york and citizem is a way of life, especially when yr Gay…

]]> By: Yolanda http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/spiritual-relaxation-how-well-do-you-deal-with-criticism/#comment-6676 Yolanda Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:31:59 +0000 http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/?p=231#comment-6676 Well as for me, I really do not worry about it, they are only words and they do not make or break me. The way I see it they are just tring to build themselves up by tring to make you feel bad. As my grandmother said they talked about JESUS and I am no better than he is. Well as for me, I really do not worry about it, they are only words and they do not make or break me. The way I see it they are just tring to build themselves up by tring to make you feel bad. As my grandmother said they talked about JESUS and I am no better than he is.

]]> By: Elly http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/spiritual-relaxation-how-well-do-you-deal-with-criticism/#comment-6649 Elly Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:25:45 +0000 http://emptyyourcup.com/blog/?p=231#comment-6649 Wow...boy did this guy lose his temper! If he allowed criticism to do this to him, then he needs to work on his inner voice inside...and more importantly build a relationship with the Creator, because his view of you is the most important view. Cecil great job! I will be signing up for your newsletter...you have my phone number too, so give me a call so we can chat...we are all one in spirit where there is no race, gender, or religion, just oneness! Shalom, Elly Wow…boy did this guy lose his temper!

If he allowed criticism to do this to him, then he needs to work on his inner voice inside…and more importantly build a relationship with the Creator, because his view of you is the most important view.

Cecil great job! I will be signing up for your newsletter…you have my phone number too, so give me a call so we can chat…we are all one in spirit where there is no race, gender, or religion, just oneness!

Shalom,
Elly

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